Why you are still single – 7 Basic reasons

We all know how difficult relationships are as well as finding the right person who you can match with and communicate deeply. Nowadays this becomes harder and harder. Also, the responsibilities, daily routine, anxiety etc, leave us no time and mood to relax and seriously occupy with our personal life. And then, you wonder why you are still singe and alone. But, have you ever thought that maybe all these are excuses?

If all your friends are in couples even thought relationships are so difficult and circumstances of our life aren’t the best, and you are the only with no partner then you may have to think which are really the reasons that answer the question why you are still single and feel alone.

You don’t have to be disappointed or isolated and closed to yourself and of course you shouldn’t try to persuade you and everyone else that the blame is on the others and just stay still and wait for Mr. Perfect. It is definite that there are things you can work with yourself , try and fix them so that people will get close to you easier.

7 Basic reasons why you are still single

1.You want too much and have high standards

You wonder why you are still single while you have left behind you people who have claimed you and tried to win you because there was always something that you didn’t like and didn’t meet your expectations. Physical appearance definitely is the first thing we look on someone and of course it has a great part when we meet a guy and fall for him. But the appearance is not everything. If you have extreme requirements from men and you are looking for something perfect, if you seek for models and with super abs then you must come down to earth and think differently. Try to find a person who treats you nice and takes care of you , who makes you laugh and you can spend nice time together even though he may not be the best looking guy.

2.You have a big ego

Women who are indifferent to others and care only about their selves like a narcissus, women who have a big ego and always brag , usually it is a little bit difficult to even pay attention to others consequently to attract them and make them really care about you. If you are selfish and snob don’t wonder why you are still single. Men run away when they meet women like that.

3.You have the fear of commitment

You wonder why you are still single, but you have to think if there is something wrong about you and men that makes you feel afraid, thing they also feel when they get close to you. If most of your relationships were adventures or small stories without commitment and responsibilities that ended very soon but now you don’t have even them, perhaps you should wonder if deeply you are not ready for commitment. Maybe you are afraid to liberate your feelings and make a serious relationship. And of course men around you realize this issue and stop trying with you because they see no future.

4.You are too shy

Well, this is a serious issue that you can’t really blame yourself about if you have always been like that, but the fact that you “change colors” when you are with someone you like, won’t help you to flirt, to approach people or to attract them. We all feel anxiety and embarrassment in similar situations but if you believe you have this in an extreme point, you must do something to deal with new acquaintances and flirting so that you won’t wonder why you are still single. If you don’t make a move towards the man you are interested in, how can he be sure you want him to get close to you and claim you?

5.You are stuck in the past

Don’t try to figure out why you are still single if you are stuck in the past and still think of your ex boyfriend and your last relationship. If you are not ready for something new then definitely it is not going to happen. You may meet people you like and always talk about your last relationship, your breakup, etc, without even realizing why you do this. Of course this keeps away even the people that may really like you when they see you can’t move on and still think of your ex.

6.You are stuck into your job

Meeting people and making relationships needs time and devotion. If you are all day at the office or you are so stuck into your job that you think it even when you are not there or always talk about work issues, you won’t be able to make acquaintances and flirt and of course you won’t achieve in a serious relationship. Don’t wonder why you are still single if you don’t have social and personal life and only care for your career.

7.You are boring

If you have no interests in your life and you are bored even with yourself, then why people will stay close to you? If the few times you decide to move from the couch and go out you are bored to start a conversation or look indifferent when people talk to you, then there isn’t a reason to seek for other excuses why you are still single. The reason is obvious. Try to find new interests and be a little bit more enthusiastic. Also, try to smile more often!!!